Why do people spend so much money on their weddings and then get divorced in 5 years or less?
People lose focus on the real meaning of Marriage and what Wedding vows truly are. Yes sometimes people get divorced - as nothing in life is perfect, but don't we see warning signs first? and If we do, why ignore them. if a relationship is rocky before marriage, it might get worst after, because there so much more at stake. why not wait!
If you know that he or she is crazy as hell while you're dating, then why get Married? If he has 3 kids by 3 different baby mother's and always has "Baby mama Drama, a dead beat dad, why marry him. If she has three kids and 3 different "Baby daddy's, Drama and no child support, not taking care of her kids, then why marry her. Marriage like sex for some people - They jump into without thinking, only to realize it wasn't that good when its done. Both can cost you, so be careful, THINK and take your time.
If you're not ready for Marriage DON'T Do IT! And Don't lead the OTHER Person on!
When you plan a wedding - Who are you really planning it for? The Guest.
What does the caterer ask? How many people will be attending your wedding.
Rent a DJ, A Hall- buy flowers etc....
Why do Brides buy an expensive dress when she will only wear it once and if SHE gets divorced in five years or less, what happens to that dress? In the back of the closet. Don't say, give it to her daughter - Will it really be in style when/if she gets married. Why not rent a really nice dress take a lot of pic, take it back and be happy. Men rent their tuxes all the time.
If the Bride's Parents don't like the Husband-to-be, should they still pay for the wedding? Why is it their responsibility to do so anyway?
Key Ingredients in a SUCCESSFUL Marriage
RESPECT * HONESTY * COMMUNICATION * LOYALTY * COMPROMISE * COMMITMENT * LOVE * ROMANCE * FRIENDSHIP* INTIMACY *** KEEP OTHERS OUT OF YOUR BUSINESS *** REMEMBER, IT'S YOUR MARRIAGE.
Marriage is a Partnership and it's not 50/50 - That only equals 100% together. (You would be mad as Hell, if you went into business with someone and always found yourself putting in the money to keep that business up and running.) Why not look at your marriage as a personal investment. you don't want to fail at it so, you do whatever it takes to keep it going strong. The return will be PRICELESS! With that said a Marriage should be 100% from each spouse, a joint effort. Your spouse should be your best friend and confidant, your lover; the first person you come to for support, besides GOD. It's nothing like being happy - Happiness Heals and Helps us Live Life Longer.
It's time to refocus on Good old "Family Values" It's time to get back on Track.
LET'S TALK ABOUT IT!
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