CHEATING: Man Vs. Woman
When a man cheats, he is not always careful. He gives his wife or significant other hints and signals, that he is being unfaithful. It's almost like he's leaving a trail of evidence behind. His actions leads to his woman's sixth sense kicking in, her intuition. Women know when something is going on, but they need more evidence, before they will confront the man. When the man gets caught, he denies it(an automatic reaction), even if he knows the woman knows. A man will say something like, "you're crazy" and get upset with the woman. He will also try to turn the tables on her. At this point the women will dig into her evidence bag and pull out, "Exhibit A" A phone number. How did his woman get it? The other woman called the house. Why would he give out the home number? Not thinking and going with the flow.
Now that "Exhibit A" has been presented and he is confronted about the phone number, he'll say, that the other woman is crazy and he'll ask his woman not to listen to her or believe a word she says, she's just trying to break us up. At this point the man will begin to apologize and tell his woman he loves her and how he needs her forgive him, "I'll never do it again. Then it's like, forget it ever happened and move on.
Why do men cheat?
is it really that simply? could she just accept his apology, forget about it and move on?
It's like it's expected that the woman forgives him - WHY?
Why do men think, apologies, buying flowers and make-up sex, absolves him from what he's done. Why do they become repeat offenders?
When a woman cheats, She's very cautious about covering her tracks. Some women will feel guilty, break it off with the other man and then tell her husband or significant other. is this the right thing to do? Some will say she's stupid, others will say, honesty is the best policy, but would does her husband or significant other think so? Hell no!
She calls him and says, we need to talk, he asks, about what and she then replies, "our relationship". Thousands of scenarios will run through his mind, especially if he is cheating himself or has in the past. When the words, I've cheated on you or I'm been seeing someone else rolls off his woman's lips, he goes ballistic. "It's over!" will be his next words, leaving no room for her to apologize, though she will repeatedly. He calls her names and his next words will be, did you sleep with him, of course in a much harsher way. No man wants to know that his woman has slept with another man. it's a blow to his ego and every time he closes his eyes he will picture it. She cries and says, but I broke it off with him, because I love you and felt guilty - I being woman enough to tell you and not keep it from you. Doesn't that count for anything?
Does it make a difference that she came clean about her being infidelity?
Why can't the woman apologize, send him flowers and have make-up sex and then it be over and done with?
Why would the man want to leave his wife or significant other if she's unfaithful, but not want her to leave him. Isn't cheating, cheating?
Why do woman cheat?
This is just one scenario of man Vs. woman cheating.
I want to know what you think. LET'S TALK ABOUT IT!
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